They say prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. But I think prostitutes might have to reinvent their business model due to some stiff competition from dating sites.
I’ve blogged previously about dating sites and apps mostly being hookup heavens for guys just looking to dump a quick load. This is the TRUTH people. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a free site or app like Tinder and POF, or a paid site like Match.com and eHarmony, there is no shortage of women ready to have sex with any guy who gives them a little attention.
But here’s the thing: most women on these sites are nothing more than prostitutes. And I’m not talking degenerates. I’m talking your school teachers, engineers, and the single girl who sits next to you in the office. Actually, they are worse than prostitutes because at least hookers get paid.
No wonder why it is impossible to find any guy capable of serious dating. Why would they want to settle for sex with just one woman when there are hundreds more right at their fingertips? With a simple swipe, any reasonably attractive guy can have 50 matches in a matter of minutes. And with little effort, there is a 100% chance that if they are bored and horny on a Friday or Saturday night, at least ten of those 50 women will “meet for a drink” – and more.
I am not making assumptions here. I know from firsthand experience as well as insight from several male friends. Let’s just use Tinder as an example because that is the most well-known dating app for hookups. Besides the plethora of married men and swingers out there, 90% of men that I have matched with and actually started conversations with come right out and say they just want to fuck. Well let me rephrase that. They actually say, “I’m just out of a relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious” which is essentially code for I just want a free ride.
And no, I am not a prude!! I think among my own gender pool, you are killing it for us! Just like men, women are also entitled to have a one-night stand or a wild romp with a hot stranger they met online or at the local bar. And women should be allowed to do it without being judged. BUT NOT ALL THE TIME!
For those of you who have been humped and dumped more than three times in the last year and sit there saying guys suck and scratch your head wondering why they never call you again. I have only one question: WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? Where has self-respect gone? Last I checked, most marriages and long-term relationships did not begin with a one-night stand.
I appreciate when a guy is just candid with me and states his intentions upfront. However, every once in a while, you run across the random douche bag who either has absolutely no game or has had so many “play dates” that he thinks every woman is a hooker.
One particular guy I talked to a while ago had it coming to him when he met me. A normal conversation ensues and then I asked him what he was looking for to which he responded, “I’d love to meet a cool girl to hang with and see where it goes.” Ok, that’s a perfect response. But the next text to come blows my mind, “We should meet up. Maybe you can come to my house and we can watch a movie and talk more.”
I am thoroughly aggravated as I can’t believe this guy is for real. Does he REALLY think I’m that stupid? So I decided I was just going to have some fun with him.
Ok, I seriously can’t believe this guy. “I don’t think I ever said anything about that.” Is it April Fool’s Day? C’mon dude. So I called one of my guy friends and asked him to give me a witty response so he told me to tell the guy I wanted to watch a porn movie. I said, even better yet, male porn. So I give a complete asshole response thinking the guy is going to just block me at this point, but he actually responds!
I am convinced that one of the biggest problems with finding a man who is willing to settle down is because many single women today lack standards. The general female population has lowered their expectations. Guys will try to go there after one or maybe two dates. But we have the right to a two-letter word, “No!” Most babies learn it by the time they turn one. Let’s all learn it and repeat it to ourselves over and over. Any guy who is serious will respect your boundaries and still call you the next day. If he doesn’t, you will know your answer. You simply were nothing more to him than a warm hole for the night.
As for the guys out there, you are definitely not off the hook either. I hope you do recognize that the last girl who banged you in the first three hours of knowing you – there were probably five others that have been there in the last month. She really wasn’t a challenge, and I pray she is blowing up your phone calling you an asshole.
My final response to the tool bag before I blocked him.