WARNING: Real conversations with the American online dating population enclosed. Enter at your own risk.
I swear the BLOCK button on online dating sites was the best feature ever invented. When I had a profile on POF, my block list grew to over 400+. All I ever heard from my friends was how harsh I was and didn’t give anyone a chance. Well, it’s been great listening to my single girlfriends lately complain to ME about all the aggravation they are dealing with from online dating. All I’ve heard myself saying to them the last few weeks is, “I know” – been there, done that.
I set several rules for myself over the last three years I have been dating. It’s very simple…one strike and you’re out. Talk dirty, and you’re blocked. Call me sexy, and you’re blocked. Disappear on me and then try contacting me again, you’re blocked. You get the idea.
But some girls are just plain stupid. Remember, I have good male friends who date online and tell me EVERYTHING. They always say girls complain to them that guys send them cock shots. HELLO, GUYS DON’T JUST SEND COCK SHOTS UNLESS YOU ASK FOR IT. I have NEVER EVER received a cock shot, and trust me, I have talked to and gone out on dates with more guys than I can even count. I only ever received it from the one guy (I mean narcissist) I have dated in the last three years, but it was after we had been dating for months. Big difference.
So let’s see why girls get cock shots. Here is an example of a screenshot a conversation one of Jay’s female friends received from a guy on Tinder.
Now here is my conversation with Jay discussing it. GEE, I WONDER WHY SHE GOT A COCK SHOT. YOU GIVE THE GUY YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS AFTER HE TELLS YOU HE WANTS YOU TO CUM AND SQUIRT ON HIS FACE. WHAT THE F*CK DO YOU EXPECT??
So anyhow, that’s that. But as for me being harsh, here is a guy I blocked recently. Why? Because three sentences in, he already seems to know me so well and knows we are going to have this amazing connection if we meet. This guy has TOTAL TOOL BAG written all over him. BLOCK!! Harsh or not…you be the judge.